Why I Got Divorced

Still amazed at how much things have changed for me since I first decided to choose life in the spring of 2008.  Things have changed even more recently.  I have decided that the life I need to live for me is not as Scott’s wife anymore.  I thought when we got married in 2001 it would be forever.  I now know how much my thoughts change and life changes and the concept of marriage  and forever actually seems very foreign to me at this point.

Scott is good but we have a different way of life that would not work for me much longer. I adopted his lifestyle for too many years and got depressed and then found my own life.  I need to be free and open to whatever life has to offer me.  It is scary leaving a secure relationship and family.  But it was time.

We are still friends and I hope we always will be.  But my life is now my own and I hope to never give it away to somebody else ever again.

Weight update… I have now lost 60 pounds!!!  I cut way back on sweets recently because I don’t like the way they make me feel and a few other minor living clean natural evolutions and had my first cold in years and bam, 116.5!  I’m not kidding I lost every one of these pounds without dieting.  I strive to be healthy though and it seems to be working for me.  So if anybody is counting, I lost another 10 pounds in 2010!  Not exactly the same as the yo-yo dieting I used to do :)

I’m taking a “break” from school.  All sorts of feelings about this but as long as I can get my butt in gear and really bring in the potential with my new business I will be more than happy with this decision.

I am visualizing myself in my own hot tub….

“Shape the future by dealing with the present”   © Myranda Love


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